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I Hate Money vs Family Accounting Tool: catalog facts
I Hate Money	Family Accounting Tool
Free Free and open source, with a free hosted instance.	Free Free and open source under the Apache 2.0 licence.
Web, Self-hosted	Web, Self-hosted
Can be self-hosted Simple project-and-code model for groups	Tracks internal debt between partners with partially shared expenses Statistics on spending per category and month
Focused only on shared expenses, not full budgeting Minimal interface	Needs Java 11 and a separately configured database Docker install is discouraged by the developer for production use
Web application, Self-hosted	Self-hosted
Open source	Open source
License not stated	License: Apache-2.0
Not stated if an account is needed	Not stated if an account is needed
Needs internet	Not stated if it works offline
Official website Full listing and sources Checked September 24, 2026	Official website Full listing and sources Checked October 2, 2026

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